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5 Bunga Pembeda untuk Anak Gadisku (PART 2)

Sudah membaca 2 bunga sebelumnya kan? Ada di 5 Bunga Pembeda untuk Anak Gadisku (PART 1)
Sekarang kita lanjutkan dengan 3 bunga berikutnya.

Kita sebagai orang tua tidak akan berhenti, untuk berusaha memberikan bunga berikutnya.

Bunga Ketiga
Memberikan ilmu pengetahuan atau pendidikan secara formal atau informal. Begitu banyak cara untuk menambah ilmu atau memperkaya wawasan anak gadis kita. Kalau pemerintah mewajibkan Sembilan tahun pendidikan dasar, kita perlu menyatakan kepada anak gadis kita tentang “sepanjang hidup pembelajaran”. Ada pendidikan formal dan informal.
Ditambah lagi akses ke sumber ilmu sangat mudah dijangkau. Anak gadis kita bisa belajar dimana saja, kapan saja, sama siapa saja. Pengetahuan ini menjadi kuncinya untuk mencapai dunia.

Bunga Keempat
Memberikan keterampilan keputrian (life skills). Banyak yang melupakan hal ini. Setelah anak gadisnya lulus sekolah yang tinggi saja, itu sudah cukup semua pembelajarannya.
Faktanya ada kehidupan nyata yang akan dilaluinya , yaitu mampu mengurus dirinya sendiri dan keluarganya, jika kelak berumahtangga.

Anak gadis kita perlu mengenal apa itu kebersihan serta kesehatan diri dan lingkungan rumahnya. Perlu memahami tata kelola rumah secara sederhana. Mereka adalah future mom, seorang ibu bagi anak-anaknya, yang akan mengatur dan menggelola keluarga intinya. Wanita pada hakekatnya adalah yang menjalankan roda rumah tangga sehari-hari, daily life, secara teknisnya, setelah berbagi peran dengan suaminya kelak.

Memang ada keterampilan yang nanti bisa diwakilkan kepada asisten rumah tangga dan ada juga yang tidak. Tapi minimal dia tahu dan bisa melakukan yang sederhana.

Anak gadis kita tidak harus menagis sesenggukan ketika harus mulai hidup berdua, tidak harus selalu delivery makanan dari restoran, atau tidak harus mengomel-ngomel karena harus menyapu dan mengepel rumah, karena para asisten mudik lebaran.

Mereka siap untuk kondisi yang nyaman atau tidak. Mereka akan melewati tahap kehidupan ini dengan persiapan keahlian hidup.

Bunga Kelima
Memberikan keterampilan atau kemampuan khusus lainnya. Keterampilan yang akan memberikan nilai tambah, yang pasti akan sangat mendukung, misalnya keterampilan berenang, atau olah raga lainnya, kemampuan menyetir kendaraan roda dua atau empat, bermain alat musik, keterampilan menjahit, memasak, wirausaha, photoghraphy, kemampuan bahasa asing, berkomunikasi dan masih banyak lagi. Keterampilan tambahan yang menjadi pembeda anak-anak kita dengan anak gadis lainnya.

Anak kita tidak akan menjadi manusia sempurna, karena dia tetap manusia biasa. Anak gadis kita yang akan siap menghadapi dunianya dengan bekal do’a ayah bundanya.

Semua bunga ini tidak bisa kita berikan sekaligus, tapi Kita harus bersabar dalam melakukan prosesnya. Bunganya akan tetap merekah membawa kebaikan bagi anak kita didunia untuk mencapai Jannah Nya. Amin.

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Khaira Fitmi

I am a facilitator, Trainer in Sekolah Alam Indonesia. Manager of Green Voices, Member of School Board (DS) and Head Of HRD. I love singing and composing the Educative Children Songs : SAI Album. I love Reading and WRITING. I am also a happy and Long life Learner Mom. "Never too LATE to learn to ride and WRITE".

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